Sometimes, we need to step back and carefully assess our love-lives from an objective distance. It’s not easy, given that we’re often deeply enmeshed in them, so bound up in their every up and down, that we can’t see straight. But when we do take that step and become able to have a long clear look in the cold light of day, we can see what needs changing, amending, altering or radically overhauling. There are, after all, so many different ways in which we may have reached a cul-de-sac, sexually and romantically. It could be that we’ve got stuck in a rut, afraid of trying out new things, such as Yoni massage in London. Consequently, we may find that we’re sexually anorexic, barely able to summon the energy required for masturbation, let alone actual person-to-person sexual contact. On the other hand, we may be using pornographic fantasy as a replacement for real-life encounters with men. Of course, there is nothing necessarily wrong with viewing erotic material, but it’s better as a complement, to provide our love lives with additional flavor and accent, than as a total substitute for living. If we discover that we’ve been doing the latter, then there’s no better time to seek out an antidote, which could mean dialing up Yoni Massage or, alternatively, getting in touch with Tantric Soul to enquire about the Yoni Massage London, a wonderful way of shaking up your love life in the company of a dashing, healthy and physically fit young man.
The other way of the Sexual Universe
At the other end of the spectrum of sexually dysfunctional behavior are the women who’ve developed an out-of-control dependency of one sort or another. Hook-up and dating apps may be enormous fun but they are also addictive and when you find yourself ignoring friends and cancelling engagements because you simply had to have that tenth anonymous encounter in a single day, it’s time to reconsider the path you’re taking. Another dead-end that we can sometimes arrive at is the recurring need to seek out unavailable or partially-available lovers, thereby setting ourselves up for rejection after rejection. We may find the root cause of this somewhere in our childhoods but whatever it might be, there’s no doubt as to the outcome – repeated, heartrending experiences of anguish, isolation and loss. No one in their right minds wants to live in that particular trap indefinitely.